My name is Faraz Ahmed. I left my job as a web developer on November 1st, 2013, and embarked on a freelance journey. It was not a decision taken suddenly. I’ve been employed full-time since 2008 and never thought of doing a gig on the side to earn some extra cash. I was of the belief that instead of concentrating on so many things on the side and tiring myself out, I should just concentrate on my full-time job and put all my efforts and energy into the betterment of the company. The philosophy worked well, as I grew faster not just in terms of rank, but also in terms of salary/benefits and respect. There were no financial worries. Everything was good. Life was great.
But then came a time when suddenly things didn’t seem to excite me anymore. There was a time when the compliments from my colleagues, boss, and clients excited me. But then things changed. Nothing excited me, and nothing motivated me. I was just going through the motions.
It was a very difficult time. Mentally, I always felt exhausted. That didn’t affect my work at all though. I always delivered quality work, and I am proud of that. I just didn’t feel challenging anymore in my current role and wanted to do something different. I knew I had the ability to do a lot more, but I wasn’t getting a chance to show my abilities in my current role. I finally realized that your company is not responsible for your growth. YOU ARE!
But it was not an easy decision to make. It is never easy to leave your comfort zone. I was earning very good money, along with very good benefits, and I also had a wife and a baby girl, and we just shifted into a new house. I’ve been in the same company for over 3 years. It is never easy to make the switch and go into a place unknown where you have to start all over again. I had a lot of doubts in my mind. What if I couldn’t succeed in the new place? What if I am laid off from a new job? What if I am unable to get a new job and end up spending all my savings? The fear of trying out something new was so much that I decided not to try it out at all and continued to grind out in my current job, hoping that things will change.
But they didn’t. My mental condition kept worsening. I was stressed and anxious all the time. I felt low on confidence and self-esteem. And I was self-sabotaging myself for not doing anything about it.
Then I came across a book on some LinkedIn topic. The book was called “The Magic of Thinking Big” by David J. Schwartz. I started reading the book and the first few chapters completely changed my mind about how I looked at the world. It inspired me and changed my sorry, miserable thinking. I had never thought a book can change one’s thinking so much. At the same time, I came across this guy, called Robin Sharma, whose motivational videos and quotes simply wowed me. All of a sudden I started feeling that something was about to change.
And it did. I quit my job without any other job lined up. I had suddenly become so confident that I knew that whatever I do from now on, I will be successful in doing that.
And I was. I joined oDesk (now Upwork) to start on my freelance journey because I had to earn money until I get that dream opportunity. This is what I achieved in my first month of freelancing:
- I Won 4 out of 4 jobs in the first couple of hours on Upwork.
- I Earned $120 on the first day.
- I Earned $1000+ in the first month.
- All 5 Star Ratings.
- I Made 3 recurring clients, who are still with me on this day (by the way I stopped bidding for jobs after 1.5 months. The work just kept coming to me.)
And I’ve never looked back since then. Later on, in my freelancing journey, I was also mentioned by Upwork on their social media pages and also wrote a book on freelancing which became a best-seller in a category on Amazon for some time.
I have earned more than $200K on Upwork so far. I am not afraid of anything anymore. It just took me one step of bravery to beat my fear and gain my self-esteem and confidence back. The road to beat the fear of failure was difficult and took me a lot of time, but it was worth it in the end. Now I can work from the comfort of my home and be with my loved ones all the time!
Food for thought:
If you are reading this, then the chances are that you are also probably stuck somewhere and don’t know how to break the shackles due to the fear of what if things don’t work out the way you want. You can read all the motivational books and quotes there are, but until you stop worrying about what society will say and take an action, nothing will change.
Try this: There are a lot of things that we want to do but are afraid or reluctant to try, or just procrastinating with. Pick one thing, anything, which doesn’t have too much of an impact on your life if you fail. And just do it! Trust me. Once you get it done successfully (or even unsuccessfully!), you will feel something different about yourself.
Then try again with another small thing. And before you know it, you’ve beaten the demon!
Failure is nothing, but a learning experience. You can’t learn until you fail. We are all humans, and we all make mistakes. It’s up to us how we look at them – as a failure or as a learning experience. I choose the latter.
Conclusion:
Stop Thinking and Just Do it! And Never Underestimate Yourself. If you keep thinking and doubting your own abilities without testing them out, then life will pass you by before you know it.
I repeat: Just Do it!
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